Please Read A man has confessed that looking at his mother's nakedness and watching her undress made him become a chronic masturbator. A Nigerian man, Kolawole Ladipo has shared an intriguing message to parents concerning some habits and sexual behaviours that could ruin the life of their kids. In a recent post, he narrated how a boy became addicted to masturbation by always seeing her mother undress before him at an early age. Ladipo wrote: *FAMILY PORNOGRAPHY DESTROYS KIDS* *"MY MUM DRESSES UP BEFORE ME"!* I counselled a young guy who was addicted to masturbation. He told me he can't do without masturbation. One thing that struck me in his confession was when he said: ''My mum caused all this for me''. Curiosity got hold of me and I asked him, how? He said: "I started masturbation since when I was 4 years old; my mum has always been dressing up naked before me, I am used to seeing her nakedness. I am not moved to have sex with her, but I always long to see mature ladies naked just the way I always see my mum dressing up naked before me." "I still remember seeing her nakedness regularly till I was 8 years; and my dad do shout on her: 'Send this boy out before you dress,' but my mum would always reply by saying: 'Will my son sleep with me? Stop planting evil thought in his heart.' "Anytime I see my mum's naked body, I long to see ladies' naked body. I then went into sex at age 10 and till now I am not free from sex, heavy pornography and masturbation...'' Dear parents, I hope you are not guilty of this? You are dressing up before your 2 years old son/daughter; you say he/she doesn't know anything yet? That's very cruel. Some couples will be having s*x while their close-to-2-years old child will be in their room with them; they'll feel and think that he/she can only see, he/she can't understand. Sir/ma'am, that your child does not need to understand. Seeing your nakedness or seeing you and your spouse making love is enough to plant abnormal sexual fantasies and urge in that child. Remember, it is now a jet world! How will you destroy your own children with your own carelessness? Don't let your children see your nakedness. Don't make love in the presence of your child no matter the age. The scene sticks to the memory, they may want to explore and experiment what they are seeing. Stop making free home-made 'sex clips or video' for your children to watch. Mummy, sit properly. Dress properly too. Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room; parting your legs for your son to see your inner tight and pant. Be very careful! Daddy, don't wear ordinary boxer at home, you sit down, your 'thing' is dangling and your daughter is seeing it. There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your spouse. Don't say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your house. It's not your house alone, it's a family house/home. You are putting your children into sexual bondage through these acts. The initiation starts from home. Mummy, wearing ordinary bra around the house in the presence of your sons is dangerous. Yes, they won't lust after you, but you might be messing up with their sensuality; and increasing their curiosity to see the breasts of ladies out there. Let's stop being 'pornographic materials' to our children. Raising sexually pure children, it begins at home.' It begins with me and you. My Counsel: Thank you very much for the issues raised in family porn. It is still our responsibility to build virtue into our family. We need to learn from others. Still on building virtuous homes. Look at this: *HABITS THAT SHOW IMPROPER UPBRINGING IN CHILDREN* Please, carefully look into the list below to see where you may want to make amends on yourself or the young ones you are caring for. Children, if not properly groomed may never get to the top in life, even if the parents are at the top of their career. Manners take you to where your education can't take you, irrespective of your status, money or the "who you know" factor. This is not meant to hurt anyone or pinpoint on someone for their upbringing. Its a general message targeted to all the parents of today. *1.* Going to your child's school dressed indecently? Think again. *2.* Speaking rashly to your child's teacher. *3.* Cursing, using foul words or swearing in front of your children. *4.* Using makeup on children. *5.* Dressing with tight clothes and indecently for children (they loose the sense of their princesshood and may not listen to you in future) *7.* Your child holds the cup or glassware by the brim and you don't make a correction. *8.* Your children don't greet and you just feel they will come around one day because they have a mood swing. (You will be blamed for it) *9.* Your children eat with their mouth opened and you feel they will grow up some day. *10.* Your children brought home something you did not buy for them and you said nothing. (That is the beginning of stealing) *11.* They talked back at you and you concluded it's okay since you're a 21st century mummy. (You will hate yourself if they do that outside and they are disciplined) *12.* They interrupt when you are speaking with another adult and you think they are bold and clever. (It's really bad manners) *13.* They exercise authority over their nanny and domestic staff and you let them be. (That is bad parenting) *14.* They say things like "my driver is on his way..." I am not an advocate that children should call your domestic staff aunty or brother but, calling them by names when they are not young people is not poise either. The use of Miss, Mr or Mrs will look good on them. *15.* Your children don't say- 'Thank you' when they have been helped or served something. They don't know how to say "please" when they need someone for help; and you are cool with that. (Bad parenting) *16.* When your children cannot stand children who are less privileged. *18.* When they pick their nose with their hands. *19.* When they don't wash their hands after visiting the washroom. *20.* When your children take something from the fridge without taking permission. (Bad parenting) *21.* When your children don't knock on closed doors. *22.* When your children don't collect from your hands the stuff you brought in as you walk in through the door. *23.* When your children request for a bribe to carry out their home chores or extra task. (That is disgraceful) *24.* When your children act like their grandparents are irritating them. *25.* When your children have not learnt to get up from the chair for the elderly or visitors to sit. *26.* When your child tells a lot of lies. (You will both cry in the future if such is not put to check) *27.* When your child asks "who is that?" at a knock on your door instead of "please, who is there." *28.* When your child is always seated by your visitors when being served drinks etc. *29.* When your children still point their fingers at other people. *30.* When your children play and jump around when prayers are going on. (age 4 above). Don't be a 21st Century parent who cannot correct a child. Train your child in the way of the Lord, so that when he grows up he will not depart from it. *IT IS BETTER TO LET YOUR CHILDREN CRY AT AN EARLY AGE WHEN YOU CORRECT THEM, IF NOT YOU WILL BOTH CRY AT NIGHT WHEN THEY BRING DISGRACE TO THE FAMILY WITH BAD AND TERRIBLE BEHAVIOURS!* May Almighty God never let this be our portion. Amen. You can do well to circulate this piece to all parents and grandparents that are on your contact list." Have a great week.

Yoruba sovereign nation

Yoruba urged to prepare for own sovereign nation
By Muftau Ayandele
Yoruba people across the world have been urged to prepare themselves for a sovereign nation of the people of the South West. In a statement issued on Wednesday, Eso Oodua urges all Yoruba people to begin the process to actualise a new nation form the people, stretching from Lagos, through Jebba, Lokoja to Warri”
The group said that "Yoruba people are bitter, disenchanted, angry, hungry and desperate for a revolutionary change in a filthy land where only the cruel, the mischievous and the dishonest can easily survive."
Said the group “Our position is emboldened by what is going on in Nigeria, the killings, joblessness, the massive migration of hostile and armed people into the South West, the collapse of values, the disintegration of public trust, the leadership ruin, and the floundering fortunes of the people in the hands of self-serving, greedy, malicious and self-destructive elite.”
A statement signed by the group's spokesperson, Dr. Akinrogun Ahmed Akindola urged Yoruba people at home and abroad to prepare for the "inevitable battle of freedom leading to the official founding of Oodua Republic which begins from Lagos, through Jebba, Yagba, Lokoja, Okun and Itsekiri territories in Delta State." The statement was made available to Irohinoodua through email. The group said other parts of the country have been compelled to resort to "arms uprising, bombing, kidnapping and even suicide" saying that what has sustained a fragile peace in Yoruba land is nothing the civilisation of the people which he said is no longer able to stand in the face of "public and state terror" imposed on the people.
Dr. Akindola said, "Nigeria to Yoruba people means death, poverty, backwardness, retrogression and repression of our rich potentials". He said the Yoruba political class have failed to allay the fears and aspirations of the people adding that only a sovereign state of the Yoruba people will resolve the chain of hurdles that stand on the path of sustainable development in Yoruba land.
He said the lukewarm attitudes to previous elections by Yoruba people in their territories represent a vote of no confidence in the entire Nigerian political system and all that pertains to it. "Our position is borne out of historical facts and the traumatic experiences of the Yoruba people since 1914 when Nigeria was created by martial fiat. Our campaign for Yoruba Nation has therefore become irreversible. It is a reflection of the reality that many of our people have given up hope on Nigeria".
The group said the 50 million people Yoruba Nation is bigger than 52 countries in Europe and 82 member countries in the United Nations and it will be the third largest country in Africa after Ethiopia and Egypt apart from being the single biggest homogenous black nation in sub-Sahara Africa. '
He informed that the Blueprint for the economic and social rejuvenation of Yoruba Nation has been put in place and would be put before the people and chosen credible leadership "as soon as we have our own country of Oòdúà Republic".
 Dr.  Akindola elaborated that in the last ten years, the members of the group have asked and answered questions about the future politics, economy, social engineering, culture, traditions,  religion, philosophy, language of the New Oòdúà Republic. We are ready."
"It is time to free the people of Yoruba land from poverty of leadership, celebration of mediocrity and excusing of criminal acts in the name of politics. Our people are tired of the miseries of Nigeria and all that pertains to it, and want to be in control of their own destiny", he explained, adding, "The road to ending violence, poverty, death, anguish and pain in our territories is to assert our rights to self determination".
The group stated 'Our resolve is cast in iron. We serve this notice to the world to be aware. After more than a century of traumatic experience in Nigeria, it makes a lot of sense to try something new. Our culture, language, values, economic and political potentials remain in bondage as long as we remain in Nigeria, a country that has brought Yoruba people nothing but shame and ignominy."
The group accused Yoruba politicians of being 'selfish, parochial, corrupt, naive and lacking integrity and completely any sense of history. They have sold the heritage of the Yoruba people. They are in power for personal gains. It is now time for the masses of the Yoruba people to fulfill the historical responsibility of pushing the "arijenimodarus" and the "Judases" amongst us, off the track for the Yoruba people to be able to reclaim her lost heritage and bring back the floundering fortunes of a once glorious people and highly endowed land.
The group said it will work with similar groups in Nigeria that are prepared to take the bull by the horn and loose the "fetters of iron of subjugation and misery".
Dr.  Akindola "urged millions of Yoruba people at home and abroad to see this as a clarion call for freedom and the whistle for liberty out of the valley of blood and sorrow that has been the lot of Nigeria.
"We want to advise our fellow Yoruba people living outside of Yoruba land to consider returning to motherland, as we will not be able to guarantee their safety should the enslaving maggots at the helms of power decide to resort to violence against our people, instead of coming to the table and discuss the peaceful dissolution of the contraption of the British amalgamation exercise that has robbed the Yoruba people of her development and progress."
"We want the world to note that we are not a violent group. We are peace loving people who are determined and uncompromising about our desire for self determination and the birth of a new Oòdúà Republic. But we are ready to shed blood if need be, to defend our land and our people against possible acts of violence against us by the Nigerian state and its agents."
We call on the United States of American Congress, the progressive Canadian government, the United Nations, the European Union, the Jimmy Carter Center, the British Parliament, all the freedom fighters in the world and well wishers of the New Oòdúà Republic to join hands with us to free our Yoruba nation and its people from over a century of perpetration of atrocities and subjugation by the Nigerian state.
We are determined to ensure that a peaceful negotiation is promoted between our group and other groups within Nigeria that have decided to pursue their self autonomy. This way a colossal calamity will be averted, if the corrupt and enslaving stakeholders of the Nigerian State would be reasonable, something we are not counting upon or we are expecting.
At this point, for the total freedom of our people and the realization of the New Oodua Republic, we are ready to water the tree of liberty with the blood of traitors and those who are determined to hold down our people in bondage. We are not going to give up until the realization of our own autonomous and independent Oòdúà Republic. We are prepared to die on our feet rather than live on our knees.
"We also want to sound a note of warning to all internal enemies in Yoruba land, all agents of the Nigerian state in our midst and the Nigerian state itself to beware. We will not condone acts of treason or aggression in any form against Yoruba Nation and people as well as our foot soldiers of freedom, liberation and total independence. The silent but active and ready majority is watching," Dr. Akindola advised.